Showing posts with label Fetal Alcohol. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fetal Alcohol. Show all posts

Sunday, February 14, 2010

My Invisible World Uncovered by CNN

Morasha Winokur's new book, My Invisible World, my brother, his disability and his service dog opens up the doors of being a sibling. Written for elementary and middle schoolers - Eleven year old Morasha's book is a breath of fresh air!

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Morasha's My Invisible World Wins Gold Award



A big congratulations to eleven-year-old Morasha Winokur for taking the action step to write a book, My Invisible World - Life with my brother, his disability and his service dog. Her book is for siblings and other family members of children with fetal alcohol spectrum disorders. Morasha won Gold for Outstanding Young Contributor by The Mom's Choice Awards. This is also an "excellent" book for middle school health classes. Way to go Morasha!

Monday, March 23, 2009

Winner Multicultual Fiction by Readers' View


The Whitest Wall by Jodee Kulp
Reviewed by Paige Lovitt for Reader Views (1/09)

“The Whitest Wall” begins with the murder of a popular local man and the arrest of a transient. The transient obviously has some mental health issues, so we are left uncertain as to whether or not he really committed the crime. The story focuses on discovering his secrets and it also delves deeply into the lives of the people who are affected by this murder. Even if the individuals did not know the man killed, the situation opens up a lot of wounds and forces people to take looks at their own lives and events from their pasts. I found this aspect of the novel to be fascinating. So many internal issues are being brought to the present and dealt with. Some of these issues involve past childhood abuse, past and present racism, gang issues and the severely life altering affects of Fetal Alcohol Syndrome Disorder (FASD).
The author Jodee Kulp does an incredible job of character development. She takes us into the minds and hearts of each of the people directly related to the story. She not only demonstrates how lives can be negatively affected by abuse and disrespect, she also demonstrates how people’s lives can be turned around with acceptance and friendship.
In the back of the book, she offers references and discussion topics regarding the story and FASD. I think that this material makes “The Whitest Wall” by Jodee Kulp an excellent choice for support groups dealing with this issue. It would also make good reading material for classes involving substance abuse. For myself, I just really enjoyed the story and look forward to the next two books that will follow in this series.
Check out the 2009 Winners
Multicultural
First The Oyster Cocktail, AuthorHouse Tomas Sancio
Second The Invincible Anita, iUniverse Lisa Lynn Ramos
Honorable Mention The Whitest Wall, Better Endings, New Beginnings Jodee Kulp

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

A Grand Slam of 2009 Gold for Mom's Choice Awards

Four awards seems unbelievable to me, but the emails kept coming announcing Best Fiction-Adult, Best Fiction-Young Adult, Best Non-Fiction-Adult and Best Young Author. Better Endings New Beginnings is excited to announce the following awards to build awareness of fetal alcohol spectrum dirorders (FASD).


The Mom’s Choice Awards® (MCA) is an annual awards program that recognizes authors, inventors, companies, parents and others for their efforts in creating quality family-friendly media, products and services.

Parents, educators, librarians and retailers rely on MCA evaluations when selecting quality materials for children and families. The Mom’s Choice Awards® seal helps families and educators navigate the vast array of products and services and make informed decisions.

MCA judges are bound by a strict code of ethics which ensures expert and objective analysis free from any manufacturer association. The evaluation process uses a propriety methodology in which entries are scored on a number of elements including production quality, design, educational value, entertainment value, originality, appeal and cost.

To be considered for an award, each entrant submits five identical samples of a product. Entries are matched to judges in the MCA database. Judges perform a thorough analysis and submit a detailed assessment. Results are compiled and submitted to the MCA Executive Committee for final approval. The end result is a list of the best in family-friendly media, products and services that parents and educators can feel confident in using.

2009 Gold Recipient: Fiction - Young Adult
2009 Gold Recipient: Fiction - Adult
The Whitest Wall:
Bootleg Brothers Trilogy - Book 1
by Jodee Kulp
Better Endings New Beginnings


2009 Gold Recipient: Outstanding Young Author
Liz Kulp
Author Of The Best I Can Be:
Living With Fetal Alcohol Syndrome And Effects
Better Endings New Beginnings





2009 Gold Recipient: Non-Fiction
The Long Way To Simple:
Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders
by Stephen J. Neafcy
Better Endings New Beginnings





We also continue to congratulate Ann Yurcek for her
2007 Gold Recipient: Non-Fiction
Tiny Titan
by Ann Yurcek
Better Endings New Beginnings





Congratulations to all!

Thursday, December 4, 2008

The Whitest Wall Review from Diane Chamberlain

It was a good morning surprise on a hard day in the world of fetal alcohol parenting to wake up to a review from award winning novelist Diane Chamberlain author of Before the Storm. I truly appreciate her reading The Whitest Wall and her work in writing Before The Storm to promote public awareness on FASD.

Ms Chamberlain's Review:

With an adopted daughter who suffers from Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder, Jodee Kulp knows firsthand the causes and consequences of this devastating and wholly preventable condition. Spurred on by the needs of her daughter and her foster children, she became an expert in the field, a spokesperson determined to educate the public about the dangers of drinking while pregnant, and she has written several nonfiction books on the subject. Often, a writer skilled in nonfiction can become heavy-handed when trying to make her case in fiction. Fortunately, Kulp's transition from nonfiction to fiction is seamless. She understands how to tell a complex story in a way that builds suspense, and her characters are at once sympathetic and so well rounded they feel very much alive. She doesn't club readers over the head with the woes of FASD, but rather draws them into the world of a young man who can barely understand the charges against him as he's accused of murder. Kulp surrounds him with a vibrant community of characters, and she doesn't shy away from addressing the impact of poverty, racism and addiction on these people she lovingly portrays. She writes without judgment about women who drank during their pregnancies and the trials of the children they carried—not an easy task when you're as intimately involved with the problem as Kulp is.
In The Whitest Wall, the first in the Bootleg Brothers trilogy, Kulp manages the impossible: she both entertains and educates. I look forward to the next installment.

Check out her Sympathy for the Devil blog at http://dianechamberlain.com/blog/2008/08/sympathy-for-the-devil.html#comments

Thursday, November 13, 2008

An inside view of FASD

The Whitest Wall by Jodee Kulp is a story of a young man suffering with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and the life challenges he faces on a daily basis. The disability is one that crosses many barriers such as race and socioeconomic status. This novel gets to the heart of FASD and gives the reader an inside view of what a person with this disability experiences through Kevin’s fight with the social and justice systems. Jodee is able to subtly incorporate the manner in which FASD manifests itself without making the reader uninterested with the details.

I am overcome with the manner in which Jodee was able to thread together racism, poverty, abuse, fetal alcohol, depression, and post traumatic stress disorder with smoothness that did not confuse the reader. This book leaves the reader absorbed in the challenge to discover how each of the preceding issues will come together on common ground and allow for a better understanding of FASD.

The overall perspective of this book takes the reader to a true understanding of what a person struggling with an FASD may be facing on a daily basis. The analogies to other disabilities and inequities lead the reader to get a feel for the inner workings of the brain of a person who is affected by prenatal alcohol exposure. The issues at hand were made very clear and with such emotion it left the reader feeling very melancholy but with hope for redemption. The Whitest Wall is a book that will be appreciated by anyone who reads it. It is a great work of fiction with a touch of reality that leaves the reader waiting for the next book.

Ruth A. Rice FASD Program Director, White Earth

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

What is really behind the recent brutal beatings of vulnerable adult in Minnesota?


The recent violent beating, burning and dragging of a young cognitively impaired adult stuns us.

Does it stun us enough to understand and take action?

The young Lakeville, Minnesota man who was beaten and burned, lost sight in one eye and is now bleeding internally will be physically scarred forever, not only by the prison tattoo his attackers burned into his arm but also by his experiential memories. And yet, Justin Hamilton, a gentle, trusting person afflicted by Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD), never meant harm to anyone. In fact, Justin had befriended his attackers only to be beaten a second time by the very people who had already harmed him. Public outcry rallied for Justin and his family and rightfully so.

There should be public outrage for the 1 in 100 children born in the United States with FASD, a 100% preventable disability, caused by the ingestion of alcohol by a pregnant mother.

According to the National Association of Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (NOFAS) website, fetal alcohol spectrum disorders (FASD) is the umbrella term for fetal alcohol syndrome and other diagnosis related to maternal alcohol use. If clinicians can identify alcohol-related effects early, intervention approaches can minimize the potential impact of these effects and provide better future outcomes. However, most children diagnosed with fetal alcohol-related problems are not identified before they reach school age, when they are referred for a learning disability or an attention deficit disorder. Without adequate supports and misunderstanding these children become adolescents and then adults who often fall prey to predators because their judgment of high-risk situations is often lacking.

There should be public awareness to build communities of safety.

There should be public outreach to bring people of character into relationships of mentoring and friendship for vulnerable citizens.

Persons with FASD are often misunderstood and ridiculed. The headlines for Justin did not tell the stories of the many other young adults hurt or dead, in prison for the crimes of another or under state commitment. They did not raise awareness for the young man shot in the buttocks in grave humor or for another young man sitting in prison for a crime he never committed. They did not raise awareness for the young women who are gathered together on MySpace to model, perform exotic dances or work the street, women held hostage by predators who begin as 'friends'. The public did not hear about the young woman who was gang-raped because she wanted to be a part of a group; or another young adult refusing the initiation who now bears slashes on her stomach where she was sliced into the gang; or the young adult who was shot in the head and lost an eye. The list goes on and on with assaults quietly buried with increases the pain and confusion of the victims and silences future repercussions.

Do the statistics lie?
Could this be real?
Or do we continue to close our eyes to the horrors unless a family member is victimized?

Two recent novels of drama, intrigue and suspense introduce FASD to readers:
Before the Storm by Diane Chamberlain and The Whitest Wall by Jodee Kulp.

Diane Chamberlain, award-winning author of eighteen novels, introduced a fictional 15-year old FASD victim named Andy Lockwood in Before the Storm. In Diane's previous career as a social worker, she worked in a high-risk maternity unit where she learned firsthand of the permanent damage a pregnant woman's drinking can impose on her unborn child. Later, as a psychotherapist in private practice specializing in adolescents, she treated some of those children.However, Diane did not set out to make Andy a victim of FASD. According to Diane, Andy made that decision for her. As Diane wrote the story, Andy's "voice" began to emerge, and she became aware of his simple, concrete thinking, his impulsivity, and his literal view of the world, and she knew he was a child with FASD.

Jodee Kulp, award-winning author of eight non-fiction books written to help families and professionals work, love and live with persons with fetal alcohol spectrum disorders, is a family advocate who understands the tears of the parents and embraces the young people. She is an adoptive parent of a young adult with FASD and has invested herself in the issues of persons with this brain damage, taking time to understand and appreciate the beauty and innocence.

Her debut novel, The Whitest Wall, the first in The Bootleg Brothers Trilogy, implores society to understand without judging three characters within a community who have brain damage due to maternal alcohol consumption during pregnancy. Everyone wonders why certain people behave in ways that appear strange or out of the norm. Since communication and miscommunication are issues for each of us, this theme is universal.

The Whitest Wall is a worthy read, a trip into a novel world, written with entertainment quality as vivid as a screenplay with a multitude of metaphors for interpretation and meaning. Jodee has created a new third-person Catcher in the Rye, capturing the chaotic turmoil of culturally-muddled miscommunication of lost-boy Kevin, a 21-year-old going-on-ten jailed for murder, seemingly by his own matter-of-fact confession. This tantalizing tale should engage youthful readers and provoke discussion among those of high-school age and older. Caulfield, move over, there is much more to tell!

Chamberlain and Kulp encourage us with their stories in telling us how vital it is to commit to building better baby brains for the future by abstaining from alcohol throughout pregnancy and how vital it is to understand this disability affecting over 40,000 newborns each year. They show us the importance of building compassion and healthy sustainable supports for a lifetime.

Fetal alcohol brain damage does not go away. No one outgrows it.

For more information on FASD visit http://www.nofas.org/. Before the Storm and The Whitest Wall are available for purchase at http://www.amazon.com/ and http://www.barnesandnoble.com/.

Justin's family has set up a trust to aid in his recovery and defray costs of his care. Donations made be made to Wells Fargo Bank for the benefit of Justin Charles Hamilton, 16817 Duluth Avenue SE, Prior Lake, MN 55372.

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

What you don't know won't hurt you is a lie.A big lie.

Knowledge is still power, and the power found in these pages is undeniable.

When Jodee Kulp began to explain to the insidiousness of Fetal Alcohol Syndrome I did not get it. I could not sympathize. It was too much like an out of control virus that was taking over the world. But when I began reading the life stories of the characters in this book I became educated vicariously, even without knowing it.

The strength of story could not be better illustrated than within these pages. Full, rich, deep personalities walk through your imagination as close as your own family as this epic-like volume clings to your heart. You will want to pick up the phone and call each one to say, "I'm right here, and I understand, or watch out." The identity of these characters becomes so personal you just know you are reading their memoirs.

Fiction, as C.S. Lewis would say, adds to reality, not just describes it. It enriches daily life and irrigates the deserts of our lives. I found "Whitest Wall" so compelling I wanted to jump to the end, but so glad I didn't. Life is complex and lives are intertwined to a greater degree than we think. We tend to be myopic, critical, judgmental, and basically self-absorbed, or is that just me?

Jodee Kulp is so adept at casting the players in Whitest Wall and so passionate a story teller you will look at your neighbor through different eyes than ever before. I believe there are many books in the book, I trust at least there are many more books coming from Jodee.

Mac McConnell, author, "Forever Changed", "Bozra"

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

The Hurricane of Publishing The Whitest Wall

I should have realized that getting this book into my hands was going to be "one of those."

Good books are like that, they take time
...a lot of time!

There will be no special book signing today,
there will be no release party.
...good books are a battle that begins with the conception of the idea and the process of growing each word into a healthy form - ready for birth to the world, much like the birth of a child - they require toil and pain and attentiveness to detail - every small detail. They arrive when they are ready.

Today is FASD Awareness Day and we celebrate the 10th anniversary of an idea birthed by three parents Brian Philcox and Bonnie Buxton (author of Damaged Angel - highly recommended! http://www.fasday.com/ ) and Teresa Kellerman (www.come-over.to/FASCRC/ a tenancious advocate who has crossed this continent ringing out the truth of fetal alcohol.

Since 1999 - actually 9.9.99 at 9:09 am bells began ringing in New Zealand and rung on the hour around the globe.

What begin with just a few has grown to an international bell concordance ringing out warnings of Fetal Alcohol and the damage it does to a person's brain. The efforts of a united world must be applauded.

Excerpt from Teresa Kellerman (www.come-over.to/FASCRC/ website

On Sept.9, we would like to ring bells in every time zone to mark the "magic minute" at 9:09 a.m. We call this, the "FAS Bell Concordance."

In early August, we learned that the only carillon in Africa, the historic 37-bell War Memorial Carillon in Cape Town, South Africa will be ringing in the Moment of Reflection. Installed in 1924 in memory of those who fell in World War I, in 1924, the carillon has rung out on numerous historic occasions, including the release from prison of Nelson Mandela. The carillon is the largest musical instrument in existence, and its music can be heard for miles. Inspired by Cape Town's efforts, our volunteers have arranged FAS Day carillon music in Toronto, Niagara Falls, Hastings, NE, and Austin, and San Antonio, TX. Other church bells will be playing around the world.
We have come up with the bell idea as there is a purity about bells that reminds us of the innocence of children. As well, bells are historically associated with warnings, alarms, marking important moments, and simply pealing for the joy of connecting with the community. FAS Day is all of these things.


(From the Oxford English Dictionary:
Concordance:
1. The fact of agreeing or being concordant; agreement, harmony...
4. An agreeable or satisfactory blending of musical sounds or notes; harmony.)

I want to thank the tireless efforts of professionals and parents, friends and families who work towards a healthier and safe future for those affected with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD)

For our sweet daughter - one of 100 live births in the USA each year - 1 of over 40,000 each year. Once again I stroke her battered wings and once again she will shake me free to try to fly. We have seen growth - and love - and a settling that was not there are a teen - a rebelliousness of fighting her disability, but of accepting it and working to understand it. Her last fall was sharp and hard, she was bruised and battered in body, mind and spirit. But like so many of us who have faced diffcult life experiences she has come through stronger and wiser. Our daughter is not a book learner, though she can read - she does not learn from videos - though she can see - she learns from walking and doing and being - and that style of learning comes at a very high cost to everyone - her, her parents and our society.

May God Bless all the children born with Fetal Alcohol today across the world. May God grant us mercy and favor to change this 100% perventable disability and all work toward Building Better Baby Brains.

Visit http://www.betterendings.org/ if you would like our free public awareness quilt.